Pesach (Passover) celebrates the Biblical exodus from Egypt. The seven- or eight-day holiday (depending on whether one is celebrating in Israel or elsewhere) begins with a festive meal called a seder ("order," because the evening follows a specific ritual pattern) on the first and/or second night. The accompanying guide is called a Haggadah, or "telling." Specific foods are eaten during the seder and throughout Pesach to commemorate various aspects of the Exodus. Because dough did not have time to rise while the Jews fled Egypt, matzah (an unleavened bread) is eaten instead for the duration of the holiday, while leavened items made of wheat, rye, barley, oats or spelt (bread, pasta, etc., collectively known as chametz) are avoided.

 

Other symbolic foods include a green vegetable (signifying the coming of spring) dipped in salt water (like the slaves' tears), a bitter herb called maror (to remember the bitterness of slavery), and charoset, a pasty mixture of fruit, nuts, and wine that resembles mortar used by the slaves to make bricks. Z'roa, a lamb shank bone, represents the animal sacrifice whose blood was painted on Jewish doorposts so the Angel of Death would know to "pass over" those homes during the tenth plague on Egypt (Death of the Firstborn) and later the animal sacrifice brought to the Holy Temple in Jerusalem.

 

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COMMUNITY PASSOVER EVENTS

Apr

29

Pesach Services at BEKI

Congregation Beth El–Keser Israel (BEKI) 85 Harrison Street
New Haven, CT 06515-1724

Apr

30

Pesach Services at BEKI

Congregation Beth El–Keser Israel (BEKI) 85 Harrison Street
New Haven, CT 06515-1724

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Beckerman Lender Jewish Community Building Holiday Hours

 

MONDAY, APRIL 22 (EREV PASSOVER)
BUILDING CLOSES at 3 PM

TUESDAY, APRIL 23 (1ST DAY OF PASSOVER)
CLOSED

WEDNESDAY, APRIL 24 (2ND DAY OF PASSOVER)
REGULAR HOURS

SUNDAY, APRIL 28 (EREV 7TH DAY OF PASSOVER)
BUILDING CLOSES at 5 PM

MONDAY, APRIL 29 (7TH DAY OF PASSOVER)
CLOSED

TUESDAY, APRIL 30 (8TH DAY OF PASSOVER)
REGULAR HOURS

Honoring the Hostages

 

Jews around the world are struggling together to simultaneously hold our celebrations of freedom when such freedom is so desperately lacking for our people at this moment. Our tradition reminds us that the Jewish experience is the experience of overcoming hardship, resilience, and rebuilding. We can find strength in our unity, and in the knowledge that at Seders around the world Jews everywhere are honoring our family in captivity. As we declare “next year In Jerusalem,” we are mindful and hopeful that next year we will all be together, free, in Jerusalem.

 

This night is different from all other nights, and this Passover is different from all other Passovers we have celebrated. As we gather around our Seder tables to remember the enslaved Israelites’ journey to freedom and to celebrate the resilience of the Jewish people, our celebration is bittered by the ongoing captivity of our brothers and sisters being held by Hamas terrorists in Gaza. Almost 200 days ago, on the darkest day for the Jewish people since the Shoah, 1,200 Israelis were massacred and 253 were abducted, taken to Gaza, and faced unimaginable horrors. While, thankfully, dozens of the hostages have returned home, there are still 129 hostages remaining in Gaza.

 

Men, Women, and Children.
Teenagers and Senior Citizens. Mothers and Fathers. Babies.
An infant who celebrated his first birthday in captivity.
Abused, assaulted, and raped. Traumatized and terrorized.
No communication. No proof of life. No timeline for return.

 

As we mark Passover 5784, the suffering of our extended family being held in captivity is felt by Jews around the world. At the Seder, we are instructed to retell the story of the Exodus as if we had personally come out of Egypt. This year, we don’t need to try hard to imagine bondage, suffering, and yearning for freedom. We are living in this pain, here and now.

 

Passover is an auspicious time--but how can we celebrate redemption and freedom while Jews are actively being held hostage by terrorists? The resilience of the Jewish spirit dictates that we do both to weave together today’s reality with our deep tradition: honor our heritage and honor the hostages.

 

Here are some suggestions for ways you can honor the hostages at your Seder:

 

Bring the Voices of the Hostage Families to Your Table

 

Share the following poem first recited in December 2023 by Rachel Goldberg, the mother of hostage Hersch Goldberg-Polin, who was wounded on October 7th at the Nova Festival, before being kidnapped by Hamas terrorists.

 

There is a lullaby that says your mother will cry a thousand tears before you grow to be a man.
I have cried a million tears in the last 67 days.
We all have.
And I know that way over there
there’s another woman
who looks just like me
because we are all so very similar
and she has also been crying.
All those tears, a sea of tears
they all taste the same.
Can we take them
gather them up,
remove the salt
and pour them over our desert
of despair
and plant one tiny seed.
A seed wrapped in fear,
trauma, pain,
war and hope
and see what grows?
Could it be
that this woman
so very like me
that she and I could be sitting together
in 50 years
laughing without teeth
because we have drunk so much sweet
tea together
and now we are so very old
and our faces are creased
like worn-out brown paper bags.
And our sons
have their own grandchildren
and our sons have long lives
One of them without an arm
But who needs two arms anyway?
Is it all a dream?
A fantasy? A prophecy?
One tiny seed.

Include a Date on Your Seder Plate
One practice being observed this holiday is adorning the Seder plate with an additional item, a date. JewBelong describes this way to honor hostages in their 2024 Passover guide: “Date palm trees are known for their resilience and ability to thrive in arid climates, and they stand for perseverance, abundance, and growth. The same can be said for our brothers and sisters in Israel. May the sweetness of the dates help us connect even more greatly to their sacrifices while reminding us of the resilience of Israel and the Jewish people throughout history.”

 

Open the Door for the Hostages
When we arrive at the point in the Seder where we open the door for Elijah, discuss leaving our doors open for those who are unable to join us tonight. We are leaving the door open to show the world that we have not and will not forget the hostages. Also, we may pour an additional cup of wine for the hostages, displayed alongside Elijah’s.

 

Acknowledge the “Fifth Child”
In addition to discussing the four types of children: the wise, the wicked, the simple, and the one who is unable to ask, we also acknowledge the child who is not free to ask. We think of Kfir Bibas, who at 15 months old spent more than six months as a captive in Gaza and remains missing. We think of Kfir’s family at this moment.

 

Advocate for Those Who Cannot Advocate for Themselves
Contributing to organizations working to support the hostages and their families; calling our representatives and demanding the immediate and unconditional release of the remaining hostages; hanging posters with pictures of the hostages; and donning a yellow ribbon, will continue to keep their plight top of mind. After your Seder, send a letter to your elected leaders demanding the release of the hostages by following the link below.

Passover Resources for Celebrating at Home

Cannot find the perfect haggadah for you? Then create your own. Haggadot.com is a resource for the Passover haggadah with thousands of options for blessings, artwork, songs, and more.

"Travel" to Jewish communities around the world from the comfort of your seder table. Downloadable recipe cards and community profiles so we can celebrate the global Jewish community, in all its diversity.

Incorporate Israel into your Seder this year with this Seder supplement from Israel Forever

First time hosting a Seder? Looking to add a new ritual this year? OneTable has great resources to make your Passover as meaningful and lively as ever.

18 Doors (fromerly Interfaith Family) offers tips for interfaith families in preparing a seder as well as supplemental readings and activities for the whole family.

Seder resources, haggadah inserts, and additions from one the leading Jewish service organizations to spark meaningful conversations at your seder.

From Passover songs, readings, and even skits, JewBelong offers a variety of resources including a downloadable haggadah.

Put social justice on your Seder table withthe AJWS Global Justice Haggadah. Spark meaningful conversations at your Seder and connect our shared story of liberation with people fighting for freedom around the world today.

 Passover Ideas for Kids

  • PJ Library Interactive Haggadah

    This beautifully illustrated guide to the seder (Passover ritual meal) will make your Passover experience more family friendly, as a guest or a host. Covering all the highlights of a traditional seder while creating new ways to engage children and adults alike in retelling the Passover story, this Haggadah is sure to be a favorite for many years to come.

More Ideas on PJ Library's Pinterest Board:


How to Celebrate Passover

A quick, kid-friendly rundown of Passover traditions in the order they happen

Matzah Candy Crunch

A delicious recipe for Passover, brought to you by the Severs Family and PJ Library.

Recipes to Try at Home!

French Onion Brisket (Meat)

 

SERVES: 10-12
PREP TIME: 20 minutes, plus cooling time and overnight chilling
COOK TIME: 3 hours 40 minutes A play on French onion soup using tons of caramelized onion and herbs to braise a seared brisket until super tender and full of umami with a hint of sweetness. All items are kosher for Passover.

Ingredients

  • 1 (5- to 6-pound) beef brisket, fat cap
    intact

  • Kosher salt and freshly ground black
    pepper

  • 3 Tbsp. Vegetable oil

  • 5 large sweet onions, thinly sliced

  • 12 garlic cloves, smashed and peeled

  • 1 cup Calvados or sherry

  • 3 cups chicken stock

  • 6 sprigs thyme

  • 4 sprigs sage

How to Make It

 

Preheat the oven to 325 degrees.

 

Season each side of the brisket with 2 heavy pinches each of salt and pepper. In a large Dutch oven, heat the oil over medium-high heat. Sear the brisket, turning it as needed, until golden brown, about 15 to 20 minutes. Transfer the brisket to a platter.

 

Reduce the heat to medium; then add the onions and garlic to the pot. Cook, stirring often, until softened and caramelized, about 20 to 25 minutes. Add the Calvados, then stir continuously with a wooden spoon for 1 minute to scrape up any browned bits on the bottom of the pot.

 

Stir in the stock and 2 heavy pinches each of salt and pepper, then return the brisket to the pot. Tie together the thyme and sage sprigs with a small piece of butcher’s twine (tying is optional, but makes it much easier to remove the herbs after cooking) and nestle the herb bundle in the pot. Bring to a simmer, then cover the pot and transfer it to the oven. Cook for 3 hours to 3 hours 30 minutes, until very tender when pierced with a fork. Remove from the oven and let cool completely, then refrigerate overnight.

 

The next day, skim off and discard any fat, if desired, and discard the herbs. Transfer the brisket to a cutting board and cut it across the grain (perpendicular to the fibers you’ll see running through the brisket) into ¼- inch-thick slices. Return the meat to the sauce and heat over medium heat until warmed through.

 

Taste and adjust the seasoning with salt and pepper, then serve.

 

Excerpted from JEW-ISH: A COOKBOOK: Reinvented Recipes from a Modern Mensch ©2021 by Jake Cohen.

Roasted Asparagus with Almonds

(From Food & Wine)

Ingredients

  • 1 pound thick asparagus, trimmed

  • 1 garlic clove, thinly sliced

  • 2 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil

  • Salt and freshly ground pepper

  • 1/4 cup toasted sliced almonds

How to Make It

Preheat the oven to 425°. On a baking sheet, toss the asparagus and garlic with the olive oil and season with salt and pepper. Roast in the center of the oven for about 18 minutes, until the asparagus is tender and charred in spots. Transfer to a plate, top with toasted almonds and serve.

Ruth Reichl's Matzo Brei

(From epicurious.com)

Ingredients:

  • 4 matzos

  • 4 large eggs

  • 1 teaspoon of salt, or to taste

  • 3/4 stick (6 tablespoons) unsalted butter

Preparation

Crumble matzos into a large sieve placed over a bowl to catch crumbs, then hold sieve under running cold water until matzos are moist and softened but not completely disintegrated, about 15 seconds. Transfer to bowl with crumbs, then add eggs and salt and mix gently with a fork.

 

Heat butter in a 10- to 12-inch skillet over moderately high heat until foam subsides. Add matzo mixture and cook, stirring constantly, until eggs are scrambled and matzo has begun to crisp, about 3 minutes.

Coconut "Macaroonies"

(From Saveur)

Ingredients

  • 8 oz. high quality white chocolate

  • 1 cup coconut oil

  • 1 1⁄2 cups (10 1⁄2 oz.) sugar

  • 1 tsp. coconut extract

  • 1⁄2 tsp. vanilla extract

  • 1⁄2 tsp. kosher salt

  • 6 egg whites, lightly beaten

  • 1 1⁄2 cups coconut flour

Instructions

Heat the oven to 350° and spray a 9-by-13-inch baking pan with nonstick baking spray then line the bottom with parchment paper. Place the white chocolate in a large bowl and pour the coconut oil into a glass measuring cup. Microwave the coconut oil until it’s hot to the touch, then pour it over the chocolate and let stand for 1 minute. Using a whisk, slowly stir the chocolate and oil together until smooth.

 

Add the sugar, coconut and vanilla extracts, salt, and egg whites and stir until well mixed. Add the coconut flour and stir until just combined. Scrape the batter into the prepared pan, smooth the top, and bake until golden brown and set, 30 to 35 minutes. Transfer the baking pan to a rack and let cool completely. Unmold the macaroonies from the pan, discard the parchment paper, and cut into 12 bars to serve.